Sunday, November 16, 2008

Boyfriends Get a Life!


This post is not mockering any boyfriends dead or alive. If you are not happy with this post..well i can't do anything. All you can do is just try to accept the prevailing truth:p

I think boyfriends often pamper their girlfriends too much to the extent it annoys the others who look at them. I have always been against the notion that boyfriends should carry the girlfriends shopping bags. Come on, if she can afford to shop that much then she should be able to carry it. Why buy things that you can't carry. Worse still, sometimes all that they (the girlfriends) buy is a tiny thing which comes in a little bag and still they need the boyfriend to carry that. Well, some would argue that it's gentlemanly thing to do and letting a girl carrying stuff is not cool. But i don't know..i just plainly detest such thing. It annoys me endlessly to see such pampered girls.

And what's worser than that, is boyfriends carrying girl's handbag!!Is she so fragile where she can't even carry her own handbag? Imagine my horror when i see guys carrying GUESS handbags (that's when their girlfriends were not around)!Yesterday when i was coming back from my grocery shopping (yeah, i was carrying my own stuff) i walked past Uni and uni was kind of busy as people just finished their lectures and were thronging from the classes. That's when i spotted this young lovey-dovey couple who seemed to have come out from the most enjoyable lecture ever as they were so happily coming out from the class holding hands.

But to my horror, the guy was carrying both his and the girl's bag and the girl was happily (yeah of course she would be happy, wouldn't she) strolling next to him. And poor guy, one hand clutched firmly with her fingers and another carrying her bag and his bag slinging over his shoulder. Looking at him the very first thing that came to my mind was "poor guy, what would he do if his nose (or any part) gets itchy?" You can pamper your girlfriend but not to the extent of not letting her carry her own school bag!

P/S- I know people who read this post would think i'm venting my 'stomach-burning' on the girl beca
use i was walking alone after shopping carrying my own bags and there she was with her boyfriend carrying her not-so-heavy (no uni girl carries heavy bag) school bag. Well, that could be partly true:p

13 comments:

tulipspeaks said...

hahaha.. ur post-script stole the thunder! ;-)



ammu.

Karthik said...

All wil say vayitharichalfying(Stomach Burning in tamil) aftr readin bt am nt!! Being Single s bless and its sick to see flaunting their love n public!!

Boy Clown : May I hold your hand??
Girl Clown : No thanks, it isn’t heavy

V cn digest even this bag-liftin!! (Better send him to olympic weight lifting competition) Bt mokkais they put n name of poems, oh god!!

Anonymous said...

single, ready to mingle

Ramyah said...

ammu: :-)
karthik- "send him to Olympic weight lifting competition". LOL
anon: single rules :p

King said...

Count me in!! Even i hate this public nuisance! Ennamo ivanga ellarum than kadhala vaazha veikuratha nenaipu! :P

Btw I normally dont c such kinda post frm a gal! :D

Ramyah said...

Well, King refer to my Post-Script. That's the reason i'm against such people:p Had i had someone to carry my bags i wouldn't have said anything about the girl :-)

King said...

yeah yeah i Know that.. I can smell the burns! :P
Btw is ur other blog (my world) too personal? says u need to be invited 2 read dat?

Ramyah said...

Yeah, tats too personal.:-)
It has a lot to do with people who are still alive. So,when they're dead i might make it public:p

Jeevan said...

Even sometime girls tilt on his shoulder for in support pleasantly, but who know what he feels the same or not, though he is her bf. Lol! the last one :)

indian84 said...

agreed..
wat about those gals love shoping for hrs n pity guys f wait 4 thm???

Ramyah said...

Oh yeah! That's the worst part i guess.Carrying bags comes after that part rite:p

Anonymous said...

We will see who will carry your bag after you get married :P

Ramyah said...

Dear anon,
i know who you are:p i will let u know. or better still u will see that yourself